Why Men Dislike Valentine’s Day and How to Change It

Surveys show that Valentine’s Day is the most disliked holiday by men. Here’s why.

Someone mentions that a one million dollar treasure is hidden on Manhattan island and says, “Go find it.” The task would be daunting. Now imagine someone giving you a detailed map to the treasure. That’s how it is for men and Valentine’s Day.

Men are romantic but the answer to, “What do you want to do on Valentine’s Day?” can seriously derail them. If you say, “Oh, anything is fine.” it is like the treasure without the map.

This Valentine’s Day be specific. Tell him exactly what would make you happy. Say exactly what you want. Name the restaurant, the walk, the movie, the place, everything. But shouldn’t he know?

Men are target orientated and need the map. It does not mean he loves you less, only that hints do not trigger him.

So if he asks, kindly tell him what would make you very happy and watch him go. You will ignite his provider instinct and desire to make you happy.

Happy V’ Day,
Jim & Laura.

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